Driving to Work

Every morning I wake, get myself ready, get in the truck, and drive the 8 miles to The Lodge at Old Trail, in Crozet. After the frantic pace of the other places I have lived, including New York City and San Francisco, it seems that driving to work has a whole new meaning.

First, and most important, I don’t consider my time at The Lodge work!

I think I have to rename what I do to… visit.  Yes.  I visit every day at The Lodge, and see the other wonderful visitors there as well.  Not to mention the interesting people that live there. The days are consistently different, with different conversations and actions needed. The conversations are quite incredible, learning about the lives of the residents that live there. I learn not just about their past, but their present and future; their thoughts and ideas on so many different topics.

I digress, because the point of this story is really about the drive to The Lodge.  The Lodge is located just outside of Charlottesville, in the multi-generational community of Old Trail, in the Town of Crozet, VA.

Crozet has its own interests and businesses, but also serves as a bedroom community to Charlottesville.  It is located only 10 miles to the West with expansive views of The Blue Ridge Mountains.

Every day I drive against that traffic.  I find it calming.  It is the wonderful effect of the beautiful countryside I see.   No matter if in snow, rain, or clear sky, it relaxes me.  I drive the speed limit! How many of you actually drive the speed limit on a back road?

Maybe it is the waving that happens between drivers on these roads. I’m not sure if people wave because they think they know me, I mean, I do see them everyday behind the windshield. Or, is it that they are wishing me well, because I am driving in the other direction, the direction as a visitor not a worker.  Either way, I have honed my wave to the slight move of the index finger lifting off the steering wheel pulling the next two fingers of the hand upward to a happy open palm above the steering wheel. Waving and being waved at is a full time occupation on these great back roads of Virginia. But I don’t mind the work.  Actually, it is so much nicer than the single finger wave of some many city folk!

So whether you are working or visiting, think about the people that are driving toward you, and see if the back country road wave brings a smile, or at least lessens the load of the person driving in the other direction.

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Did You Know?

Did you know that The Lodge at Old Trail has partnered with the Alzheimer’s Association’s Central & Western Virginia Chapter to form an Alzheimer’s Caregiver Support Group?

The support group is on the first Saturday of every month at 10:00 am at The Lodge.  It is facilitated by Alzheimer’s Association staff members and is a great way to form relationships with other caregivers that are caring for loved ones dealing with Alzheimer’s and dementia.

The Alzheimer’s Association’s Caregiver Support Groups are designed to provide emotional, educational and social support for caregivers through regularly scheduled meetings. They help participants develop methods and skills to solve problems. The groups encourage caregivers to maintain their own personal, physical and emotional health, as well as care for the person with dementia. 

Please join us for a support group meeting or call for more information.  Suzanne Stephens (co-facilitator) at 434-242-0783.

 

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Ballerinas and the County Police

The title of the blog this week is a bit of a teaser.  While writing the blog, each time I look at its title, I think it must be a good read on the front page of the Daily Progress or the name of a new sitcom.

Typically, ballerinas and the County Police would be unrelated.  This week, however, they have something in common in that they were both at The Lodge at Old Trail.

Ballet originated in the Italian Renaissance. Court musicians and dancers collaborated to provide elaborate entertainment.  A ballet of the Renaissance was a far cry from the form of theatrical entertainment known to audiences today.  Ballet slippers and pointe work were not yet used. The choreography was adapted from court dance steps. Performers dressed in fashions of the times. For women that meant formal gowns that covered their legs to the ankle.  Early ballet was participatory, with the audience joining the dance towards the end. -Wikipedia

 

The beautiful ballerinas of Crozet Arts shared several of their “Seasons” performances with Lodge residents and staff.

The girls’ ages ranged from 6 to 17, and their experience varied, but they were able to convey so much emotion with their dance, and held their audience captive.

 

If you would like to see these lovely young ladies for yourself, visit:  www.CrozetArts.org.

To find out more about ballet, visit the NPR website or read Apollo’s Angels by Jennifer Homan.

 

 

 

Also paying a visit to The Lodge at Old Trail this week was Officer Steve Watson, Crime Prevention Specialist, at the Albemarle County Police Department.  Officer Watson came to conduct a free public workshop to give knowledge of local scams and teach our residents how to avoid falling victim to them.

Officer Watson discussed the mistakes most people make when someone is trying to run a scam.  He also covered the various ways to protect yourself from scams and fraud.  This workshop was sponsored by Home Instead Senior Care and The Lodge at Old Trail.

To get more information, visit: www.albemarle.org, read the Albemarle County Police Department’s pamphlet on Common Scams and Fraud, or view and print the Scams Against Seniors handout (.pdf).

Posted in Uncategorized | 1 Comment

St. Paddy’s Day at The Lodge

It was a snowy Monday, as The Lodge at Old Trail residents celebrated the holiday that signifies the start to Spring.  Strange that we celebrate St. Patrick’s Day as an Irish Holiday when the real St. Patrick wasn’t even Irish. He was born in Britain around 390 A.D. to a Christian family.

At 16, Patrick was kidnapped and sent overseas to tend sheep as a slave for seven years in the mountainous countryside of Ireland.  He escaped and returned to his family in Britain only to get ordained as a priest from a bishop, and went back to spend the rest of his life trying to convert the Irish to Christianity. Nothing good came of that as he was not treated well by the residents of the island.

St. Patrick died on March 17, 461 AD.  Folk lore eventually grew about Patrick and he was later honored as the patron saint of Ireland.

Fast forward to 2014 where Lodge residents kicked off their St. Patrick’s Day festivities the right way, with bagpiper, James “Jim” Bond.   Jim entertained all of The Lodge residents and staff and made himself available to answer questions about traditional Irish music, the bagpipes, and his kilt.

Lodge Chef, Jesse Kaylor, prepared a traditional Irish dinner with a Guinness beef stew and Corned beef and cabbage.

Happy Hour in Gregg’s Pub had Irish whiskey and Guinness for those wanting to partake.

A leprechaun was even spotted with some of the Piedmont Assisted Living residents.

Interested in more information about St. Patrick’s Day, St. Patrick, shamrocks or snakes in Ireland?  If so, check out the National Geographic website.  If you are interested in more information about The Lodge, visit our website, give us a call at 434.823.9100, or email kristinapare@lodgeatoldtrail.com.

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

So Much to Say…

The Lodge at Old Trail doesn’t just publish its own newsletter,
The Blue Truck Express. There is also a publication designed, written, and edited by our very own Lodge residents, known as The Lodger.

The Lodger is produced every two months and contains interesting articles such as the Resident Focus and Staffer Spotlight that both give keen insight to our wonderful residents and staff.  You can catch up on all that you have missed by visiting our News and Press Releases page.

March’s issue of The Lodger is now posted.  Happy Reading!

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Getting back to it!

Well, after 1 year of not writing on this blog, it is time to re-engage.  We haven’t had the opportunity to write because we have been so busy at The Lodge with all of our new residents moving in, coupled with our continuous events.

Our Independent Living Residents in The Ridges, Piedmont Assisted Living and Seasons Memory Care neighborhoods all have a full schedule of activities provided by our amazing Life Enrichment staff.

We also act as a community gathering place when we host our monthly Third Thursday events.  We have hosted authors, wine makers and story tellers, and have shared all of it with the surrounding community.  Visit our website for more information on The Lodge or Lodge events.

Also, take the opportunity to visit our other blog:   www.seniorlivingincharlottesville.com.  It focuses on the life of seniors in Charlottesville.  We will be posting helpful and informative pieces from Lodge team members and residents.  Take a moment to look at past posts and continue to check back regularly.

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Fear of the things you don’t know or are not good at!

Did you ever put something off because you didn’t know the right way to do something? Maybe because you weren’t good at it? Maybe because you just didn’t understand it and didn’t want to try and fail? There are so many reasons why we don’t do something. Everyday we make excuses to not change, but to stay the same. It is such a short life, might as well try something new, try something that is not comfortable, who knows maybe by trying, by opening a new door you will have many more doors to open afterward. As my father always says ” Failure is not, not succeeding, but rather never trying!”
Well, its taken me 3 months to write another post to my blog and three different times today to write this simple little paragrapgh. I started at 6 when I came in and now as I watch some of the workers leaving our Community I notice it is 5:00. I am not a good writer, I can’t spell, even with spell check. When I click on a word to make sure it is spelled right, it doesn’t come up with options, it comes up by saying, ” No Suggestion”! I can’t tell you how many times I have to change a sentence around so that I can use a different word.

I am writting this post today because I just don’t feel comfortable doing it, but I know that if I try it again and again I will be more accustomed to it and eventually I will like it. I also felt compelled to write this today because of the many people that are also changing. The many future residents of The Lodge at Old Trail are also doing things that are not easy, nor probably fun. They are looking through there house and seeing that they have sometimes over 40 years of possesions to weed through. I hear all the time, ” what should I throw away, what should I keep, what should I give to my children, goodwill, or auction.” The Lodge hosted a Downsizing Event 2 weeks ago that over 140 people showed up to learn more. We had 5 different experts talk about the real estate market, the way to downsize, to sort, to auction, even a great getlemen talking about actually packing and moving. I learned a lot as I feel most of the people who attended did. I was asked to go on a radio show about downsizing after our event because even if you are not moving, taking care of your house and your things is always cosumming. If we can just take one step at a time we can work through anything. Our thoughts can turn to reality.
I look out my office window and see my beautiful new Community The Lodge at Old trail, almost complete. If I had listend to other people , if I didn’t keep trying things out of my comfort zone, this new Community in the middle of a multi generational community would have never been built. Whether it is cleaning out a closet, trying new food, meeting new friends, building a 186,000 sq ft Community or even writting this grammitically incorrect, mispelled post on this blog, if you don’t try you will never know if you can do it.

As my Father said, ” Failure is not, not succeeding, but rather not trying!”

Posted in Senior Living, The Lodge At Old Trail | 8 Comments

The Launch of The Lodge at Old Trail

On September 22nd, The Lodge at Old Trail finally said hello to the public. Even though we will not open our new Senior Living Community until next spring we held an event. Over 150 people attended. The many friends of The Lodge were made up from all walks of life and all generations were present.
We were grateful to have several Pastors from our local church’s and honored to have Rev. Chuch Mullaly speak to our crowd. After which, our 25th Delegate, Steve Landes spoke followed by Ann Mallek. Both mentioned how important The Lodge will be in helping our Community of Crozet bring our Seniors back into the middle of our Community.
Following this event, The Lodge at Old Trail will be having an event every third thursday. Look at our web site for upcoming events, www.lodgeatoldtrail.com.
On Oct 20th we are honored to have Gabriele Rausse, The Monticello wine maker speak. The month after, November 17th, Phil James, the author of The Secrets of The Blue Ridge will speak.
Below are several pictures the Launch for The Lodge at Old Trail, truly a Community located in the middle of the Multi Generational Community of Old Trail Village.

Chief Williamson, Chief Eggleston

Friends of The Lodge at Old Trail

The Rev speaking to our Community.

gathering for the Launch at Old Trail

Many friends of The Lodge

Steve Landes, Ann Mallek ,Jerry McDonald,David Hilliard

Friends of The Lodge at Old Trail

Multi generational community

Little girl taking a rest on our 1946 Chevy 1/2 ton pickup

Posted in Senior Living, The Lodge At Old Trail | 1 Comment

“I didn’t want to have my mouth full!”

Today a great friend of mine, Leonard Harris, and my mother’s boyfriend of over 35 years died. I called him Uncle Woo as did my children, but that is a different story about him.

We are all born and we all die, that is the truth of it. I sit here and remember how knowledgeable he was. If you didn’t know the title to a song all you had to do was say a couple of words from the song and he would tell you. He was a Broadway theater critic for many years. If you asked him who was the welter weight champ of 1953 he would describe him to you and the fight were he became the champ. Amazing what was in that mind. I will also remember how when my kids were young how he read stories to them, there are so many wonderful memories of him that I think it doesn’t even feel like a memory but just another story like it was yesterday.

But truly his must loveable trait, besides his incredible love for my Mom, was his humor. So to leave you with a better understanding of who he was . . .

A man calls his Mom, ” Mom how are you?” ” Fine” the mother answers. The man replies” you don’t sound well.” ” Well, its true I feel sort of weak.” ” Why are you weak?, ” because I haven’t eaten in over 26 days.” The son replies ” Why haven’t you eaten?”

“Because I didn’t want to have my mouth full when you called!”

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leonard_Harris_(actor)#Bibliography

Posted in Senior Living | Tagged | Leave a comment

Moving Again

senior community - squirrel

Started this morning at 6, moving from the construction trailer on our emerging senior community to an office in the Village Center at Old Trail in Crozet, VA. I am going to miss the noise and action from the boys at MB Contractors. Junebug, the site manager, said he never saw a squirrel he didn’t like……to eat! His son George, or Stingbug. Big Eddie and Ryan. So if you are reading this, come by and ask for a hardhat tour and give me a reason to go the 75 yards to see them at the site.

Posted in The Lodge At Old Trail | Tagged , | 1 Comment